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Monday, November 20, 2023

Made a Commitment

With Pastor Kyle
After a decade of attending worship at the other Presbyterian Church on Route 206 in Lawrenceville, Don and I finally decided to join the Presbyterian Church of Lawrenceville. I don't know why now, other than the timing felt right. Many in the congregation expressed their surprise since they assumed we were already members.

For the first few years we were attending the evening worship service at The Presbyterian Church of Lawrenceville and the morning service at Lawrence Road Presbyterian Church. Don was still on the leadership team at LRPC. There was a point when I went to PCOL while Don continued to go to both. 

When this latest round of New Member classes rolled around we realized we hadn't been worshipping at LRPC in couple of years. Not only that, but Don is on the Tech Team at PCOL live streaming worship a couple of times a month, and I go to their women's bible study group. There was no reason not to make it formal.

We joined with three other people -- one of whom also is an evening worship regular attendee. My parents worshiped with us to watch us make a promise to the congregation that we will be good members, supporting the church in every way.

It is a big move, and worthy of sharing through a blog post so a few years from now when I try to remember when did we do this, I can look back on this post and smile.



Lisa H., us, Sara and Ryan B.


Sunday, November 19, 2023

Santa Visits through the Years

Organizing my external hard drive filled with 7 years worth of photographs has encouraged me to create another "through the years" blog. This one is of visits with Santa. In most cases, the visit was with the true Santa, as agreed upon by my friend, Heidi.


2002



I was a new mom to a 7-month old baby. I thought the only place to see Santa was at the mall. Fortunately the line was not very long.















2003


When Ashley was a year old we stumbled upon Santa while touring Kuser Mansion in Hamilton, NJ. It took us a couple of years to discover the pattern and to make it a habit to see him.




2004


Looking back I must have been crazy, but at the time it seemed sane. Ashley and I went into NYC with Debbi and Christopher to see the Christmas decorations, and take a picture with Santa at Macy's Santaland. It was an ambitious day with two small kids and mass transit.



2005



We had a nice visit with Santa at Hershey Park the year Ashley was 3.





2006



When Ashley was 4 we returned to to Kuser Mansion to visit Santa. Over the years we've been able to have long chats with Santa.













2007


When Ashley was 5 we took her to Kale's Nursery, a local florist, to see "the best Santa," according to an acquaintance. He was closer to home, and was available more hours, but he was not the true Santa.










2008


Back to Kuser Mansion to see the true Santa. Ashley and Baby, her doll, dressed like Santa for the picture.

My mom's other grandchildren could not make it to Kuser to meet Santa, so we met up at Marketfair Mall instead. Ashley was in first grade, but I was homeschooling her that year, so our schedule was flexible. We were the first ones at the mall. While waiting, a photographer from the US 1 Newspaper asked if Ashley was afraid of Santa. I said no. He asked Ashley and Santa to do a small photo shoot together. It was on the cover of the US 1 newspaper the following week.










2009


When Ashley was 7 years old, she asked Santa for a pair of spats. From here on out, Santa calls Ashley "Spats." 









2010




8-year old Ashley showing Santa the spats he brought her the year before. She then asked him for a sewing machine.





2011


At 9 Ashley asked Santa for a bearded dragon. Yeah, right, like that stands a chance of happening! There is no way I was going to allow a reptile to live in our house. 






2012

This year 10-year old Ashley brought Sandy Claws to meet Santa Claus.







2013 

Visiting Santa a Desiree Daniels annual open house. They asked about Sandy.



2014 

Back at Desiree Daniel's Open House. They asked again about Sandy. He has been pooping too much to take him out in public. This year our 12 year old asked for a trip to Europe. Amazing how the ante keeps getting upped.



2015

Back to Desiree Daniel's house again for a quick sneak visit before dashing to school to be aged 60 years from 13 to mid-70s to turn into Scrooge. Santa noted she has grown again. Ashley has been too busy to think about what she wants for Christmas this year. Does this mean Santa gets off easy this year?





2016

For the first time I did not take a picture of just Ashley with Santa. A sign the times are changing and that I was more excited to see Santa than she was? Heidi also started a new tradition -- she invited Santa to her holiday party. We also saw him at Desiree Daniels' house (timed well so we arrived at a lull). For the second year in a row, Ashley didn't tell Santa what she wanted for Christmas. 

2017


It is so nice having Santa living back in New Jersey again! This year Santa had a regular gig at Kale's Nursery in Lawrenceville. We also saw him at the Heidi's caroling party.










2018 

Two trips to see Santa at Kale's because the first time I forgot to take a picture of Ashley alone with Santa. So out of habit. So glad he is close. Ashley knit the cap she is wearing. We caught him quickly at Heidi's caroling party. Santa was very busy this year, but always makes time for those on his "Good List." 

Merry Christmas!

2019

We are entering a new stage. with Ashley working retail, seeing Santa was a bit of a challenge. Kale's was out because they had similar hours. We did find one evening at Kuser Mansion, but nearly missed it because we thought he was there until 9 (it was really 8) and we stopped for dinner after WiNK church service. We did it, and the tradition continued. With Ashley going to college next year, we'll see what happens.

2020


We popped in to see Santa at Kale's Nursery over Thanksgiving weekend because it is 2020 and who knows what will happen! Dr. Fauci said Santa cannot get Coronavirus, but there is always the chance non-essential businesses will be forced to close again. Santa sat back a few feet from us on his throne. We sat on the white bench in front of him. We wore masks when talking to him. We were told we could take them off for the picture, meanwhile he wore a clear plastic face guard as protection. A strange year to say the least.

2021

We are slowly making progress towards life two years ago. Because Santa knew we are fully vaccinated (including boosters) we were allowed to visit up close and even sit on his lap (well, Ashley did). We brought Yoran, our Belgian exchange student, with us. Santa eyed him up and said this year he gets a handshake. If he comes back next year, he gets a hug like the rest of us. We tried to explain he'll be back in Belgium by next Christmas -- no, he is not her boyfriend! This was the picture that made our Christmas card. Funny, no one asked about him. To be fair, we did mention him on the back when we talked about our news for the year.



2022

We returned to Kales for our annual Christmas photo over Thanksgiving weekend. I suppose Ashley finally graduated from being told to sit on Santa's lap.






2023

When Santa tapped his knee and asked Ashley to sit there, I felt he was asking her to model a Santa Visit for the growing line of little ones at Kale's Nursey. Last year we thought she graduated from sitting on Santa's knee, but we were mistaken. Santa is very busy, by the end of the weekend he had already seen over 1,000 children. 

Tuesday, November 14, 2023

Celebrating the Lawrence Hopewell Trail

In 2001, not long after we bought our home, we learned there was a grassroots initiative to build a 20-mile trail near our suburban home. It would be called the Lawrence Hopewell Trail, and would connect these two towns. Oh, and it would be completed within four years. Two friends, Becky and Eleanor, dreamed up this initiative with enthusiasm and naivety, something brought up as we celebrated the 21st anniversary of this plan and the trail nears its completion. They recently stopped being all volunteer and found funding to hire a director.

As mentioned a few times that night, Becky and Eleanor had absolutely no knowledge of how to make this a reality. They just had passion and vision, and a lot of tenacity. They are also two of the hardest people to say no to on the planet.

Becky worked for Bristol Myers Squibb (BMS), and Eleanor was at Educational Testing Services (ETS). Their companies were early supporters in every way possible. A section of Village Park, located half a mile from our house, was included in the loop. A couple of sections use roads. Their "about us" section talks about their all volunteer board, which is true. It doesn't mention it would not have happened without Becky and Eleanor.

Their sold out gala called "Our Founders, Our Friends, Our Future" celebrated their vision, which they call The LHT Way. "When people are inspired to work together on common projects, better communities result."

Hard to believe, but 25 years ago the idea of preserving farmland and turning it into something that will not generate tangible income (as say a housing development or a strip mall) was new. Formed in 1986, Rails-to-Trails was still a new idea. The East Coast Greenway was only a decade old. People were afraid of strangers walking through their backyard on tow paths. Today these ideas seem strange because it has been proven that these types of trails are assets people seek when buying a home. It is certainly something we want with our next home.

As the speeches continued, I was probably feeling overly sappy that night as I was in the middle of binge watching apple TV's pandemic hit "Ted Lasso," which centers around a coach constantly encouraging his time to work together, and watching them transform over three seasons. 

The founders were celebrated. As Eleanor told me with a huge grin on her face (paraphrasing): we don't do this for the accolades, but when they come it does feel good.

Don and I were pleased to reconnect in person with friends and acquaintances. We were seated at the best table in the room -- the one right in front of the podium, with Becky and her husband. Also at our table was Don's bike polo friend Wills, and the father of one of Ashley's earliest friends. 


When asked what our connection is to the LHT, I answered "user." Most people there were board members and highly involved with its success, but our involvement is on the sideline. It was still an appreciated answer as without users, there would be no need for the trail.

We enjoyed dressing up and celebrating. The event was what I had hoped to be able to do at The Bridge Academy -- gather together without asking for money, just celebrating all the good that has happened and continues to happen. There was a soft ask, pointing to a QR code where donations would be accepted, but no silent or live auction, no one encouraging us to purchase 50/50 tickets, or other ways to get more money out of us. We were able to relax and marvel in their success.

Later in the week we walked through Mercer Meadows, still thrilled that when AT&T sold their Pole Farm property, Becky and Eleanor and their band of volunteers were able to turn it into trails, allowing nature to stay, rather than turning it into a housing development or soccer fields.

Thank you, Becky and Eleanor.


Wednesday, November 1, 2023

Halloween through the years

I decided to scan Ashley's first few Halloweens into the computer so the collection could be complete.


2002

 Ashley's first Halloween she was 5 1/2 months old. The half is important when you are so small. At that stage she didn't get a vote. Since I always called her my princess, I dressed her up as a princess that year.








2003

 At one year's old, Ashley was still my princess. I dressed her as Belle, my favorite Disney princess. I love Belle because she reads a lot, and because she doesn't put up with a lot of nonsense from the men in her life. She is strong and independent. More interested in adventure than in dating. This was the first year I took her to the pumpkin patch at Little Acres.
 This was also the first year we took her to the Fire House Halloween Parade on Gordon Avenue. She won for the Kookiest costume in her age category. I think it was her white beaded "pock" (pocketbook) that put her over the edge in voting. Personally, I thought she was a shoe-in for Cutest costume. 





2004


By two, Ashley had more definite opinions. We celebrated Halloween at Disney World, where after much effort I was able to take a picture of Ashley dressed as Pooh with Pooh. Our Disney costume highlight pictures would make another good blog thread. The tradition of taking a Halloween pumpkin patch picture continued.


This was Ashley's first year trick or treating with a friend. Prior to this year, I just took her to a few friends' homes long before regular trick or treating began. 

We went to a few hours in our neighborhood with Sophie and her dog, Gigi. The girls are still good friends years later.

2005




Three-year old Cinderella searching the pumpkin patch for just the right pumpkin to turn into a coach for the ball.









Trick or treating with her best friend, Sophie. We only hit a few houses that year.












2006



 















Four-year old Pocahontas / Tiger Lilly (from Peter Pan). With her hair down, Ashley is Pocahontas. With her hair in braids, she is really Tiger Lilly. Same costume. Yes, it can be a bit confusing at times.

We went trick or treating in Allentown with my parents that year.


2007

Five-year old fairy (Ranie --before Disney decided to do away with the fairies by Gail Carson Levine and create their own knock-offs) flying through the pumpkin patch at Little Acres.
















This was the first year Ashley had a last minute idea -- she wanted to dress up as Mary Poppins. I was stumped, but Ashley wasn't. She went to her dress up collection and pulled together a few pieces -- including the dress she wore in Aunt Becca and Uncle Bill's wedding, a leotard, a hat, some netting and she was set to go for the firehouse Halloween parade, always held on Mischief Night. 

She was not yet done, though, she wanted Don and I to dress up as Mary Poppins and Burt, while she dressed up as Jane Banks, while we trick or treated through Allentown. 


2008




Six-year old Ashley dressed up as Iridessa, one of Disney's official fairies. 


This was also one of two years we were homeschooling Ashley. We decided to go to Disneyland. Halloween lasts for about 6 weeks at Disneyland. However on October 31st, the Mad Hatter ("Sweet") took Ashley trick or treating through Fantasyland. Yes, it was a slow day in the parks as it was mid-week that year. This is one of my favorite memories of Disneyland.






2009


Seven-year old Ashley wanted to be a 50s girl, and I found a costume on eBay. Probably the simplest Halloween costume ever.













This was the first year she trick or treated with Emily on the other side of our neighborhood. They had a lot of fun canvassing the neighborhood together.








2010



Eight-year old Ashley was being very indecisive about what she wanted to be for Halloween, yet I wanted to take the annual pumpkin patch picture. She decided to dress as a Chinese girl, and have her doll dress in a similar attire. (The dress was a hand-me-down from Krissy, and part of her dress up collection.)

The day before the parade at school, she decided she wanted to be the Pillsbury Doughboy, a character Don and I have both been over the years (I went as the Pillsbury Doughboy when I had a "bun in the oven.")


Once again I asked Ashley, how do you see this happening? She went into her dress-up collection and her dresser, added the chef's hat Don wore with his costume over 20 years ago, and came up with a Pillsbury Doughboy costume. The kids in the older grades all got the inside joke and thought it was great!


She wasn't done yet. She decided for the firehouse parade, Don should be the doughboy and I should be Poppie Fresh, the female counterpart to the the Pillsbury Doughboy (otherwise known as Poppin' Fresh) and Ashley wanted to go as their child (Poppette Fresh?). Don had a costume. Ashley had a blue baby doll dress in her dress-up collection. I went to Red, White and Blue to find the right dress for my costume and added some white sweat pants and a mob cap. We took first prize for group costume at the firehouse. (Pictured at the Purple Cow.)

Trick or treating with Emily and Sofia.


2011



 Another year without purchasing a costume because nine-year old Ashley decides to dive into her dress up collection to become a hippie. In fact, she and her friend, Emily, both decide to dress as hippies that year. They did Trunk or Treat together at school, and trick or treated around Emily's neighborhood with Sofia and their siblings.

For us, though, Halloween 2011 will be marked by the first time Don or I remember it snowing in New Jersey before Halloween. Fortunately, it was the only time it snowed that "winter."




2012



Ten-year old Ashley decided to be a witch and put together her own costume. She also mastered the art of "flying" for the camera.

For the first time since Ashley was 3 she trick or treated in our neighborhood. It was fun being able to ring our own doorbell, and to see our neighbors. She loved trick or treating with Emily the past few years, and going to Allentown with my parents, but there is nothing like going door to door and seeing your neighbors, and having them see you in your costume. 

A bigger story about 2012 Halloween. We'll see what 2013 brings. I'm just hoping for no natural disasters!

2013

A beautiful night for trick or treating -- mid-60s. No snow storms or natural disasters. Perfect! Trick or treating with Emily -- hit both our side of the neighborhood and hers.






















2014

Ashley made her own Steampunk costume using hand-me-downs, thrift store finds, and crafts to create the costume. The goggles were purchased at a Steampunk festival.












2015

This year Ashley is going as Galinda from "Wicked." We lucked into finding a pink prom dress at Red, White, and Blue. This was the first year she went out without me. I'll admit I was a little sad. They went with a Broadway-theme and all looked awesome.


2016

Another year another Broadway musical. This year Ashley went at Alexander Hamilton from "Hamilton: The American Musical" and her school best friend went as Aaron Burr (same show). As Don was having open heart surgery that day, they trick or treated together and I did not see them. The next picture is from Maia's Halloween party. The last one was taken at Aaron Burr's grave in Princeton (his father was a president of the United States, so the former U.S. Vice President was buried near his parents). I think the weather was nice enough for trick or treating.


It has been a few years since I've updated this post. By the time Ashley entered high school and then college, Halloween was more on her and less on me. The pumpkin patch closed, thus taking away our annual photo op.

2020


Freshman year of college Ashley celebrated in COVID lockdown with Abby, who was supposed to be her roommate until Muhlenberg decided they should each have a single their first semester. They went thrift store shopping to find their costumes. I'll have to find those pictures to share. (Abby and Ashley were roommates their second semester of college.)

2022

Ashley and her girlfriend, Anna, dressed as Bert and Ernie. Ashley (Bert) had a shirt similar to what Bert would wear. Anna bought an official Ernie shirt from a Sesame Street shop. Paired with a rubber ducky found by chance at Target, they turned it into a photo shoot. They wore nametags when they went out to make sure people knew who they were trying to be. Quite clever!

2023

Ashley and Anna dressed up as chefs from Ratatouille. I don't have a story to go along with the picture.